GEDDY LEE Has Regrets When It Comes To Late RUSH Bandmate NEIL PEART - "I Felt That I Had Been Incredibly Selfish And Now Here He Was At The Beginning Of A Fight For His Life"
November 17, 2023, a year ago
In a new interview with The Telegraph in support of his autobiography, My Effin’ Life, Rush singer/bassist Geddy Lee reflects on how his parents surviving Auschwitz affected his childhood, the death of Neil Peart, and a Rush reunion. An excerpt from the article follows:
In 2016, on the eve of a walking tour along Hadrian’s Wall (the largest Roman archaeological feature in Britain), Geddy Lee received the news that Neil Peart was ill. “I was crushed and confused and really at a loss,” he recalls. “And I have to say the walking was good because I had to put one foot in front of the other and focus on not falling off of [a] hill. And it gave me some time to regret those feelings of resentment that I had. To regret not celebrating Neil’s retirement with him. I felt that I had been incredibly selfish and now here he was at the beginning of a fight for his life. So there was a lot of emotions post-Rush in that first year. A lot of conflicting emotions.”
In another excerpt, Lee discusses his final visit with Peart...
In the autumn of 2019, Geddy Lee and Alex Lifeson paid what would prove to be their final visit to Neil Peart. An acutely private person, the man they nicknamed “Peke” had even gone so far as to hire a publicist to ensure that the circle of people who knew of his illness was vanishingly small. In these final years, the pair understood that part of their job description was to make their friend laugh by talking about “the insane things we liked to joke about”. With good-natured familiarity, often it was Lifeson who was the butt of these jokes.When the time came to leave, rising from their chairs on the balcony of the drummer’s home, the visitors each took turns clinching their host in a bear hug.
“It was a very poignant evening,” Lee says. “And it’s a memory I do cherish. The last conversation we had was remarkable in that one of the things he wanted to express was his pride [because] he’d been listening to everything we’ve done. Every day he would go to what he called his ‘Bubba Cave’, where he would spend his days with his cars and his office and his books and whatnot. And on the way there, every day he would listen to the work we had done over the years, one record at a time. He wanted to just share how proud he was of the work we had done together, which was a beautiful thing.”
Read more at In a new interview with telegraph.co.uk.
Geddy Lee's North American My Effin’ Life In Conversation tour is underway. Produced by Live Nation, Lee's 14-city tour kicked off on November 13 at The Beacon Theatre in New York, making stops across North America in Boston, San Francisco, Chicago and more before wrapping up in Toronto at Massey Hall on December 7.
The evening promises to be a once-in-a-life-time event. After the curtain rises, Geddy Lee will give his fans a peek into the very fabric of his life: from a deep reflection of his family and childhood, to a dive into the history of Rush; from the determined pursuit of music, to the personal memories with his life-long friends and band-mates, Alex Lifeson and Neil Peart. Joined on stage by a special guest interviewer, Geddy Lee will be reading key passages from his forthcoming book My Effin’ Life; he will then share thoughts and stories taken from his experience. Furthermore, fans will then have the chance to participate in a special Q&A, with Geddy Lee answering their questions directly.
“Writing this book has meant spending so much time living in the past”. Lee continues: “I’ve never lived my life looking anywhere but forward, which is why I resisted doing this kind of thing for so long. Being in a band all those years was reassuring because it was an ongoing thing. It felt like it was forever. There was always unfinished business: the next record, the next set design, the next tour. It’s been the theme of my life. But you need a lot more determination to proceed in the world of music without the comfort of your bandmates, and I can only hope that finishing this book will release me to return to what I do and love best”.
Get tickets at Ticketmaster.com. Every ticket purchased includes a copy of Geddy Lee My Effin’ Life which will be provided to ticket holder upon entry into the venue. There is a 4 ticket limit per person.
$1 per ticket is going to the Neil Peart Memorial At Lakeside Park fund. The project and its timelines are contingent on the task force raising the $1 million fundraising goal established for the project. Donations of any size can be made towards the memorial project online at www.stcatharines.ca/neilpeart. The sooner the task force can achieve its fundraising objectives through the generosity of Peart’s fans, the sooner the community and his fans will be able to see the results.
Dates:
November
17 - National Harbor, MD - The Theater at MGM National Harbor
18 - Boston, MA - Orpheum Theatre presented by Citizens
19 - Cleveland, OH - State Theatre at Playhouse Square
21 - Montréal, QC - Théâtre Maisonneuve
23 - Vancouver, BC - The Centre in Vancouver
24 - Seattle, WA - Moore Theatre
26 - San Francisco, CA - The Masonic
28 - Los Angeles, CA - Orpheum Theatre
30 - Denver, CO - Paramount Theatre
December
3 - Chicago, IL - Auditorium Theatre
4 - Detroit, MI - The Fillmore Detroit
7 - Toronto, ON - Massey Hall
Lee previously announced the UK leg of the tour. Dates are below and tickets will be available here.
Dates:
December
10 - Wolverhampton, UK - The Civic at The Halls
13 - Sheffield, UK - City Hall
14 - Glasgow, UK - Royal Concert Hall
17 - Portsmouth, UK - Guildhall
18 - London, UK - Barbican
Geddy Lee's My Effin' Life memoir is available now via Harper Collins. Order here.
Description:
The long-awaited memoir, generously illustrated with never-before-seen photos, from the iconic Rock and Roll Hall of Famer, Rush bassist, and bestselling author of Geddy Lee's Big Beautiful Book of Bass.
Geddy Lee is one of rock and roll's most respected bassists. For nearly five decades, his playing and work as co-writer, vocalist and keyboardist has been an essential part of the success story of Canadian progressive rock trio Rush. Here for the first time is his account of life inside and outside the band.
Long before Rush accumulated more consecutive gold and platinum records than any rock band after the Beatles and the Rolling Stones, before the seven Grammy nominations or the countless electrifying live performances across the globe, Geddy Lee was Gershon Eliezer Weinrib, after his grandfather murdered in the Holocaust.
As he recounts the transformation, Lee looks back on his family, in particular his loving parents and their horrific experiences as teenagers during World War II.
He talks candidly about his childhood and the pursuit of music that led him to drop out of high school.
He tracks the history of Rush which, after early struggles, exploded into one of the most beloved bands of all time.
He shares intimate stories of his lifelong friendships with bandmates Alex Lifeson and Neil Peart—deeply mourning Peart’s recent passing—and reveals his obsessions in music and beyond.
This rich brew of honesty, humor, and loss makes for a uniquely poignant memoir.